Alexander ‘Xander’ Barnes Obituary-Death News; Alexander ‘Xander’ Barnes, Former Disney College Program Staff Member, Dies
Alexander “Xander” Barnes, a beloved member of the Raleigh, North Carolina community, has tragically passed away.
A former staff member of the Disney College Program and a passionate contributor to the North Raleigh Arts & Creative Theatre (NRACT), Xander’s death has left a profound sense of loss among his family, friends, and all who had the privilege of knowing him.
Born in Selden, New York, Xander later made his home in Raleigh, where he grew up and became an active, vibrant presence in his community. He attended North Ridge Elementary School, continued his education at West Millbrook Middle School, and graduated from Jesse O. Sanderson High School.
Even from a young age, Xander showed a spark of creativity, a love of performance, and a tireless work ethic that would define so much of his life. Xander’s passion for the arts was deeply rooted in his involvement with the North Raleigh Arts & Creative Theatre (NRACT).
From a young age, he was immersed in the theatre’s vibrant community, where he quickly became known for his kindness, sense of humor, and remarkable dedication.
Xander was not only a performer but also a behind-the-scenes supporter volunteering countless hours to help keep the theatre running smoothly. He loved cleaning and organizing so much that the term “Xanderized” was affectionately coined by those around him to describe the tidy and thorough touch he left on every space he worked in.
His commitment to NRACT did not go unnoticed. He was the very first recipient of the “Elizabeth Grimes-Droessler Volunteer Award,” a recognition that perfectly encapsulated his devotion, selflessness, and genuine love for his community.
His NRACT family remembered him as “devoted, hardworking, kind, and witty,” someone who lifted the spirits of others with his humor and gentle presence. His passing has left an irreplaceable void in the theatre that meant so much to him and that he helped nurture for years.
In addition to his contributions to the local arts scene, Xander took part in the Disney College Program, a dream opportunity that allowed him to blend his passion for service and magic.
During his time with Disney, he worked at the Liberty Tree Tavern, where he brought joy to countless guests with his warmth and infectious energy. Like everything he did, Xander approached his role with pride, heart, and a genuine desire to make others smile.
Xander’s life was defined by his generosity, light-heartedness, and strong commitment to the people and places he loved. Whether he was volunteering at the theatre, working at Disney, or simply spending time with friends and family, Xander radiated a warmth that made everyone feel welcome and seen.
He had a gift for making people laugh, and his wit and gentle soul left lasting impressions on everyone who crossed his path. His sudden passing has brought a deep sense of grief to all who loved him.
The outpouring of tributes from friends, teachers, coworkers, and fellow performers is a testament to how much he was admired. He was not only a dependable volunteer or a dedicated worker he was a beloved friend, a cherished community member, and a bright light in so many lives.
As his NRACT family wrote in their tribute: “His love for his NRACT family will always be remembered and his dedication can never be matched. Rest easy. We will love you always.”
Xander Barnes’ memory will live on in the places he gave his heart to, in the stories shared by those who knew him, and in the enduring impact of his kindness, laughter, and love.
